Since moving down to London, and away from my closest friends, I've kind of had to learn to enjoy more time on my own. But I am the kind of person who loves to be surrounded by people. I feel much happier after a day of spending time with friends, than a day where I've been alone. As much as I love a good day to myself, face mask on and cuppa tea in hand, nothing quite beats a good old laugh with friends! Makes me so grateful for technology, not sure where I'd be without my girl group chats!
Over the past few months I've began to understand, once you get older, it isn't about quantity, friendship is all about quality. I'm a firm believer of how important it is to really hold onto those friendships with those who are likeminded & I'm so happy to have come across some beautiful girls since I started this whole blogging journey. Chatting everyday and meeting up regularly has made me so inspired! We all have such similar interests, all from different backgrounds and places and we've become such close friends.
![]() |
So glad to have met Katy from lexilife.co.uk X |
So ~ all I want to say is, trust your gut, if you feel like your friendships aren't of 'quality' then you're probably right.. Keep those friends close who value and appreciate you, they are the best kind of people! And with that, remember to show how much you appreciate your friends, even if you haven't seen them for ages, or haven't caught up in a while, I'm sure they'd love a text or call from you today.
Love you gal!!!! This post was too cute, and so true, I sooo believe that friendship is about quantity too! xxx
ReplyDeleteAh thank you Frances! Glad you agree! love ya xoxoxox
DeleteLovely post Kirby - totally agree it's about quality more than quantity! x
ReplyDeletehttp://www.cocoamay.co.uk
Thank you Catherine!! So happy you agree!! Xxxx
DeleteThis post literally SPOKE to me! I count myself lucky to have met you and the girls too ๐๐ผ See you all soooooon ๐
ReplyDeleteAww yes I totally agree!! Such a good bunch ๐
DeleteI'm in the exact same position at the moment, I've just drifted away from my friendship group and I'm having to learn how to make new friends all over again, it's really scary but quite exciting at the same time!
ReplyDeleteJess x
acornlifefitness.com
Once you find the ones though you'll know! Very exciting, it's nice to have a choice as well, if that makes sense. Like you aren't forced into a friendship from school/uni/work! Xx
DeleteBeing older and finding friends can be difficult but that can be a good thing. You learn who actually is your friend and who is there just for interest. Love this post!
ReplyDeletexo Maria
themariaedit.blogspot.com
I completely agree Maria! Definitely easier to spot those friends who don't really care once you all go separate ways in your lives! Thanks for reading xx
DeleteThis post is so true! As I’ve got older I’ve realised just how important quantity is over quality!
ReplyDeleteDefinitely more important! Thanks for reading Freya Xxx
DeleteI loved this ❤
ReplyDeleteThank you so much Charlie! Xx
DeleteI love this so much, I definitely agree that it's quality over quantity xx
ReplyDeleteHannah | luxuryblush
Thank you Hannah! Yes I'm so glad you agree! xox
DeleteBabe this post speaks to me on so many levels. It's so true that in your 20's you really do find your true friends, and I think the smaller the circle the better xxx
ReplyDeleteI relate to this so much. It's SO much harder to make friends when you get older and you don't realise people feel the same as you, either xx
ReplyDeletewww.natalieleanne.com
love this, definitely agree with you it's been rather hard for me too!
ReplyDeletewww.lucindaanderson.com